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Battling Pornography in a Pornographic Age (Pt. 2)

Mark Horne

This article is the second installment in a two-part series discussing the significance of combating pornography. Read the first part here.


Biblical Perspective on Pornography

So, what does God tell us in His all-sufficient Word about pornography? The Bible provides clear guidance on the importance of purity and avoiding sexual immorality, which are essential in understanding the harmful effects of pornography. 


Jesus underscores the seriousness of harboring lustful thoughts, highlighting the need for purity in mind and actions (Matt. 5:28). Similarly, in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 Paul emphasizes, “For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you knows how to control his own body in holiness and honor.” The Scriptures call believers to a higher standard of holiness and self-control.


The Bible speaks profoundly about the sanctity of marriage and the responsibilities of husbands. Ephesians 5:25-28 instructs, “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her... In the same way, husbands should love their wives as their own bodies.” This passage calls husbands to selfless, sacrificial love, which is incompatible with the selfishness fostered by pornography. Additionally, Hebrews 13:4 reminds us, “Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.” This reinforces the importance of maintaining the purity and honor of marital relationships.


Scriptures also guide the role and responsibility of fathers. Ephesians 6:4 advises, “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” This verse emphasizes the need for fathers to nurture their children with care and godly instruction. Proverbs 22:6 further instructs, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” These verses highlight fathers’ considerable influence in shaping their children’s values and behaviors. By adhering to these biblical principles, fathers can avoid the pitfalls of pornography and fulfill their God-given roles with integrity and love.


I’m Struggling with Pornography – What Should I Do?

Overcoming pornography requires a comprehensive approach grounded in biblical principles.


The first step is to repent. One must turn away from sin and toward God (2 Chron. 7:14, Acts 3:19). Repentance also encompasses confession. James says, “Therefore, confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much” (James 5:16). John states in 1 John 1:9, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”


Next, one must transform one’s mind through scripture. Romans 12:2 urges, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” Immersing oneself in God’s Word reshapes thoughts and attitudes, aligning them with His will. Additionally, accountability and support within the Christian community are vital (James 5:16), while Galatians 6:2 reminds us to “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” Sharing struggles and seeking accountability helps break the cycle of secrecy and shame associated with pornography.


Prayer and repentance are powerful tools for overcoming addiction. Through sincere prayer and repentance, individuals can experience God’s forgiveness and healing.


Practical steps are also crucial in breaking free from pornography.

  • Installing internet filters and accountability software can help reduce temptation and prevent access to explicit content. 

  • Seeking pastoral or biblical counseling provides tailored support and strategies for overcoming addiction.

  • Engaging in spiritual disciplines such as regular Bible study, prayer, and worship strengthens one’s relationship with God and reinforces the commitment to purity. 

By combining these biblical solutions with practical measures, individuals can find lasting freedom from pornography and restore their relationships and spiritual well-being. [1]


For those struggling with pornography, know that God’s grace is sufficient, and transformation is possible. You are not alone, and there is hope and healing available. Take proactive steps today to strengthen your relationship with God and your family. Embrace biblical principles and seek the support you need to overcome this challenge. Doing so can restore your relationships, honor your commitments, and lead a life of integrity and purity.



Dr. Mark Horne is pastor of Andrews PCA in Andrews, South Carolina, Stated Clerk for Pee Dee Presbytery, and an adjunct professor for Birmingham Theological Seminary.


[1] One of my go-to books to help others fight pornography addiction is Heath Lambert’s Finally Free: Fighting for Purity with the Power of Grace. Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2013.


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